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I wanted to stay grounded while dating without losing hope. So I made a dashboard that helps me tell the truth—to myself, first.

This year, I broke up with my boyfriend of 9 years and moved out of the house we’d shared for 5. It was both the hardest and best thing I think I’ve done so far in my life, and I’m still processing it. It took longer than I thought to be “ready” It took a […]

I’m just beginning my Soft Girl Era – it’s got nothing to do with finding a partner to do things for me. It’s more about ditching all of the exhausting people-pleasing and self-sabotaging habits that have left me feeling drained and stressed out in pretty much every aspect of my life, up to and including my romantic relationships.